The Best Blessing of my life~~~
I know its Valentines Day~~ a time of romance, flowers,candy,flowers~~~Cards expressing Love and Care for each other, but for me~~it is truly a day of being Grateful in so many ways! As I reflect back over the years and all the major Health Scares I had~~I give THANKS to the LORD for my still being here--alive and able to laugh, cry, fuss, and simply be with my fantastic Husband!
We met the 2nd weekend of Sept. 1973~~~yes, I know there are much younger ones out there who see that year and think--"When was that, and Wow, she must be really OLD!" Well, yes we are both Older, but when I pause and go back to the exact moment we met----it seems like just a few moments ago, as I was with a group of High School Girl pals and walking through the grounds of a large Chili Cookoff. One of them mentioned something about 'Look at that bunch of good-looking guys over there" and when I turned--there He was!!
They were a bit cautious about walking up to meet these guys and all I could say was, "I would really like a sample of Chili" and off I went. Of course there He was when I walked up to ask for a sample of Chili and we started talking~~as if we had known each other forever. Two hours passed and it was time for me to re-connect with my friends, I gave him the phone number of where I was staying and we both agreed to see each other at a dance planned later that night.
The dance came and went-I never saw him and got up early the next morning, heading back home. My friends told me later they had a very "early morning" phone call from some guy who was looking for me!! He finally convinced them of who he was and they gave him my home number.
I recall my Mom asking me about my weekend and I told her "I met this guy, very nice and he had the happiest SMILE I had ever seen!" She listened quietly, said nothing and within a couple of hours, the phone rang and YAHOO--it was Matt!! We arranged to go out the following weekend and as our first date came to a close, I asked him "Why did you want to go out with me?" He looked at me, no stumble-just complete assurance and said, " Cause I think I love you!"
We dated for 1 1/2 years--he proposed to me on Christmas Eve, 1974 and we married on April 26th, 1975!! My Mom told me shortly after we met that she knew I had met the man I would spend the rest of my Life with!
I don't feel our meeting was an accident~~~about three weeks before I met Matt,one day I put my head down and went to The Lord in prayer---I asked him to "Please" bring me a Man who would Love me for the person I am, someone who would respect me and Love me Forever........
My Prayer was answered.....I hope we grow very Old together, and I could not begin to imagine my Life without him.......
Blessings to all on this day...
martha
Somehow I missed this post so glad I was checking out some blogs today. such a sweet story Martha...it is evident he took serious the vow, for better or worst. How this generation needs to see this kind of commitment from us older ones. Our two loves telling others how long we have been married since we were 17 when we got married. In some ways I am glad we did not have them till after some of those very tough years. I tell if we ever get down your way I am going to look you up and we will meet face to face.
ReplyDeletemy Dear Betty--
ReplyDeleteThank you for the loving words... I have been away from blogging as I recently became seriously ill and my dear husband was by my side constantly. We spent several days at the hospital with him sleeping in a chair--but never leaving my side!! That is LOVE--plain and simple... He got me home today, both of us exhausted from my being so ill--and I thank GOD to know this man will always be by my side, and I will stand by him........