Lately the days seem to be one big Blur of Pain stacked upon Pain~~~I wonder why everything hurts so much and it hits me--"My Pain is out of Control!" Here I am-complaining about one Pain upon another~~my husband hears the majority of my down moments and simply talking helps me to move past the throbbing.
Why does talking Help? The answer is not difficult to understand--somebody takes time out to truly LISTEN~~~we all need to be heard, for me it comes with strong Shoulders, big Heart, and Patient Ears--my husband has all of this and more. As my voice slows down, I notice Pain is settling down into a familiar pattern--one I have lived with now for many years.
I make sure to say "Thank You" to my husband--this is no cake walk for him either and he needs to know his wife is still here--ragged down by Pain, but still able to smile, laugh,cry and Gently hug!!!
We are learning how important the "little things" can be~~~
My prayers are with all who suffer with Pain.
martha
I am thanking God too for your caring husband. He has learned to judge your pain so he knows too when it is out of control. Sad for those who have no one to listen and care. Thanks for letting me share you story Martha.
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